The “Screw with Him” Text! In chapter One of Power Texting Men you learned how to build tension and attraction with your texts. Here, I want to give you another method to hit him hard, early in your relationship. This works best with an alpha male you think might be a bit harder to coral. This texting method is sneaky but fun!! Guys love a challenge and your texting is critical to keep him salivating until your next date. “Catch me if you can” is your motto, remember? How do you do it? You show him, through texting, that you are potentially dating other guys. Here is your example: You: “Gonna be late, be there at 10ish! If I see you in that silly shirt don’t look for me:)” You: “Whoops, sorry Jeff, wrong Jeff!” You can adjust your text to fit what you are most comfortable with, but the concept is the same. You are purposely sending the guy you’re trying to woo a text meant to go to another guy. In my example, even your text screams you are a catch and you have options. The text also shows that you are not afraid to screw with what your date might wear! You accomplish multiple goals:
- He now knows that you have other guy options
- He sees that you can stand up to men and tease them – this shows confidence
- Your text is short and laser focused – just like his best guy friend would text him, so he relates
- His challenge and mystery DNA chemicals are coursing through his veins!