Understanding a Man’s Mind
I have been answering your emails, every day, and the subject of “understanding a man’s mind”, from a man’s perspective, has become very popular.
On February 24th I blogged about the 12 ingredients that go into men. Can you name all 12? get to know these so you can understand a man’s mind once and for all.
Today I want to talk about the 10th ingredient – A Man’s Need to Provide.
We might try to fight it, hide it, and in some cases believe we don’t need it but the resistance is futile – Quality men must be able to provide if they are to be emotionally available. Men must complete their mission in life, or as I call it, their Conveyor Belt to Manhood.
In the real world, women don’t need a man in their life to survive anymore. They can go it alone and succeed. But that wasn’t the case for thousands of years and our DNA doesn’t change that quickly.
We haven’t needed our little toe for generations and yet, last time I checked, it’s still there!
Women make their own money today and are just as successful as men. Their role is are no longer dedicated to being mothers and wives. This was not the case just a few decades ago.
And yet men still need the ‘feeling’ that they can provide for their family and their future children. They are driven to this goal.
So what can women do to fulfill a man’s need to provide?
Strike a balance between your awesome independence and your potential suitors who want to woo you by providing. Tone down your independence on occasion and let a guy fulfill his need to provide. Let him pay, open doors, and protect you from the cruel outside world.
This will increase his happiness and lure him towards you.
Humor him a little bit!
Be a damsel in distress once in awhile and let him come to your aid.
The advantage? You attract the good guys. You attract the good men and you weed out the moochers who want your money and use of your 3 bedroom home. This is especially true of the older crowd of ladies who have been jaded by their ex’s in the past and have gone on to be independent.
A Man’s Need to Provide
- Allow him to do the “manly chores” around the house
- Compliment him when he does well – even if he screws up a little
- Seek his advice for a problem you may have
- Never compare salaries if you know he makes less than you
- Tell him how you much you enjoy his company
- Text him and ask his opinion
These small things are huge to a quality guy! And you really don’t need to go out of your way to accomplish your goal of fulfilling his need to provide. By understanding a man’s mind, you are able to get what you want from men because you know how to react to situations.
I can take ANY scenario, pick from the DNA tree (or the conveyor belt to manhood as I like to call it), and solve your problems with men and now you can too!!
Next week, I will discuss DNA Imprint #11 – Guys take longer to fall in love.