Let’s Talk About The No Contact Rule. Does It Work?
Gregg here at WhoHoldsTheCardsNow.com and today I’m talking about getting your ex boyfriend or husband back. Will no contact make him move on or reconsider? The conventional no contact rule to get him back has been tossed around a lot and it’s time to toss it out!
In my best seller How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, I have your answer. It’s a combination of both. If you go totally no contact, he could go out of sight out of mind on you.
I have a better no contact rule to get him back. I call it slip in slip out.
After writing my powerful breakup letter, which I template inside my book, you contact him about getting your stuff back, for example, or ask where you stayed in Aruba when you were together.
This is brilliant!
You are telling him that you are ready to move on and it’s not just him. He can’t believe you want your stuff back so soon and wonders who you’re going to Aruba with.
You see, he thinks because he dumped you that you should be grieving and still be at his beck and call.
At least you are not letting him know.
Will my ex boyfriend forget about me if I don’t contact him?
To answer this we go back to understanding the male mind after a breakup. Guys don’t like to lose their stuff and you are part of his stuff!
When you send my goodbye letter and then slip in, slip out with statements confirming that it’s over, you turn the break up on its head and confuse your ex.
Are you bluffing? Yes. Because you having nothing to lose!
This is a good thing!
His mind shifts. He realizes that you are NOT there as a secondary option. Guys break up to test the waters. The “waters” aren’t always better – in fact the waters usually suck!
Now, because he knows that you are growing stronger and potentially moving on, he can’t treat his new single’s life with the same vigor.
Door #2 is closing fast and that door is YOU. Suddenly, your ex starts to question the break and think about the great memories you had.
And memories are a bitch!
I call them “pennies in the jar” and if you put enough pennies into the relationship he is going to have a weak moment.
We are toying with the male psyche and giving you your best odds of stirring his emotions and getting him to capitulate.
You are doing the exact opposite of what you want to do and what he thinks you will do.
You do this with confidence. Stay upbeat with your messages and don’t act at all angry. Be happy! If you can’t, then you delay until you can.
Again, the steps are inside me ex back book to get you to a stage where you can pull this off.
Now, communication is left open for him so he can reconsider and, because you sent the powerful letter with the one powerful memory, he’s thinking about you.
This version of the no contact rule to get him back works because you are only going radio silent temporarily. Then, you reach out but in a way that surprises him.
Will No Contact Make Him Move On?
Absolutely so don’t! If he goes weeks or months without hearing from you he could put you out of his thoughts. Instead, follow my version of the no contact rule and increase your odds exponentially.
I give you the best of both worlds. Contact, but the right kind of contact.
Your solution is called How to Get Your Ex Back Fast. It’s only for women. The book has 270+, 4 ½ star average, Amazon reviews so you know it works. Click the link and get it before it’s too late!
How To Get Your Ex Back Fast uses my special no contact rule
This topic is the most emotional one I write about and I’m sorry to say it’s wildly popular. I wish it weren’t. Most of the coaching I do, many of the emails I receive and a lot of the One Question questions I get come from women who are in terrible despair, having just lost a boyfriend. It’s heart-breaking. If you’re suffering from this same loss, How To Get Your Ex Back Fast is a must-read!
Not only is the book great but I’m including the free workbook as part of your purchase today. As a bonus, for the next 3 days, you can purchase the book (which not only includes the free workbook but a FREE copy of the book that started it all, Who Holds the Cards Now) for just $4.99 – a 20% savings!
This book teaches you techniques that work! While most online dating coaches tell you to go no contact, I do no contact with a twist. In addition to my unique no contact rule, I teach you techniques such as:
- Writing him a goodbye letter – and sending it
- Understanding the male mind during no contact
- Reminding him of great times you’ve had together to tweak his emotions
- How you can keep on his radar screen without talking to him – tweak his need to win
- Making him question the breakup
I know you feel all is lost. You’ve probably been angry-texting him and blowing up his voicemail and email with your anger and frustration. All of that emotion stops today. Today we get to work – today we begin the journey to get him back!Share