The Chase is On!

Sometimes, you need to know how to make a guy realize he’s losing you. Men can go rogue after the excitement fades. In other words, he starts taking you for granted. You give and he starts withdrawing. So, you give more, and he starts withdrawing more.

What’s the solution?

Put in as much effort into him as he does towards you!

This man needs to see signs that he might lose you so his chase DNA kicks back in and he starts to pursue again. Bring back the challenge and mystery.

How to Make a Guy Realize He’s Losing You | Tip #1: Resurrect Your Social Life Outside of His

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Resurrect your social life!

This one is simple and its fun! Time to start spending a few Friday and Saturday nights with your friends and not your man. This instantly gets his attention and gets him thinking, “hmm, why doesn’t she want to be with me tonight?”

This is a positive development.

Oh, he might be excited for the first few nights to be able to join his friends, but that excitement will quickly turn to worry if he loves you.

How to Make a Guy Realize He is Losing You | Tip #2: Change Your Look

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Change your look!

Another fun one. He has you labeled you. He thinks he knows everything about you. Time to strip that label and show him that you are very capable of change.

And if you can change your hair length, daily routine and clothes – then he will damn well think that you can change the guy you’re dating!

How to Make Him Chase You | Tip #3: Change it Up in the Bedroom

As soon as you rock his world with something new under the sheets (or in the elevator), his mind will think: “Where did she learn this move – from another guy?”

Boom! His days of taking you for granted will be over.

How to Make a Guy Realize He is Losing You | Tip #4: Change your Emotions

Remember how you snapped when he wanted to go out with the guys last Saturday night? This time smile and let him go. In fact, encourage him!

Don’t be sarcastic. Be nice. Just make sure he knows that you will be spending your night out too – looking hot with your girlfriends.

Really mess him with him by laying out his clothes for his upcoming night out!

How to Make Him Chase You Again | Tip #5: Prioritize You

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Prioritize You and a little less him

Remember when he got DUI and you drove him everywhere for three months? How about the time when he was so sick that he could barely make it to the frig and you stayed with him for three days straight?

He has become accustomed to you caring about his needs over yours.

Yep, time to pull that plug too.

Book a trip for yourself. Say no to his petty needs a few times. Tell him that you would love to, but you and your friend Cheryl are dying to ride that Six Flags roller coaster this weekend.

How to Make a Guy Realize He is Losing You | Tip #6: Flirt

Be careful with this one. Guy’s are highly competitive and another man in his space rubs his fur the wrong way.

When you’re at a restaurant lock eyes with the hot waiter. Talk a little bit longer than you might normally with a stranger.

Your guy will quickly realize that he has become less of a priority in your life.

How to Make a Guy Realize He is Losing You | Tip #7: Kill it at the Gym

Did you that one of the first signs of an affair (or thoughts of leaving) is when one partner starts caring about his or her body again?

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Kill it at the gym!

Hit the gym! Kill off those extra pounds and eat healthy while he is stuffing his face with the usual fried foods.

Watch as his “I will take you granted” grin fades off his face!

How to Make Him Worry about Losing You | Tip #8: Texting

You know how you respond in seconds after he texts you? You guessed it – stop!

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Delay your responses a bit!

Respond an hour or two later. Make him sweat like he does to you. Again, the key is to stay nice and hold back your emotions when he gets irritated at your delay.

“I’m sorry, babe, I was doing crunches and I didn’t want to be interrupted.”


“I was ordering drinks and I forgot to get back to you – won’t happen again.”

Then, do it again if his poor attitude doesn’t change.

How to Make a Guy Realize He’s Losing You | Conclusion

Don’t overuse these tips. Gauge his reactions and adjust your actions accordingly. Your man is like a dog – once he is trained to dig you again, you can back off and treat him like nothing ever happened.

Women will tell me that they don’t want to play games. I tell them to do it their way if they don’t like what they read.

They get back to me, single, and buy all my books!

Like it or not, guys have certain DNA traits built into them.  Yes, some of these traits suck and I wish we didn’t, but we do!  Play the game and win. If you do – the game will get played less and less.

The sheer fact that he knows what you are capable of will keep his ass in line!

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