Big things are in store for me and you this year. I hope you are as excited as I am about this new year! Are you? You’re not??? Why not?
Ohhh, I know, you haven’t found a high value man yet.
Why not?
Nevermind, the reason doesn’t matter. That’s in the past.
Today is the day I challenge you to join me in taking personal responsibility for the future.
Are you ready?
First, you need to make a decision. Do you want to find love or don’t you? You have all the tools. Gregg has twelve of the best books on the market covering almost everything you need to know.
I hear all kinds of excuses from women who say they can’t take the steps in these books:
- “It’s too hard.”
- “I don’t have the time.”
- “ Online dating sucks, they are all creeps.”
- “ I’m overweight so I never get chosen.”
Excuses!
I have a close friend who can’t lose weight. We’ll call my friend Debbie. Debbie is 40 pounds overweight and complains daily about how the gym sucks. She tried another gym and she said the same thing to me.
I couldn’t take it anymore.
I said, “Debbie, it’s not the gyms – it’s you. The gym is just a big space with weights and machines which just sit there. They have no personality.
You need to do something with them. The refrigerator is very similar – a machine that you need to stock with foods which will keep you thin – but you need to stock it with food which will actually keep you thin!”
Yeah, I upset her– wasn’t the first time, and it won’t be the last.
But do you understand the message? I am holding us both accountable this year! I am asking you to take personal responsibility for your life and I’ll do the same.
I want you to find love, but you need to give it more than just a half-hearted effort.
Online dating doesn’t suck if you know what you are doing
- Are you screening multiple guys as Gregg describes in Love is in The Mouse?
- Are you asking the right questions?
- Are you rotating your pics and visiting the site every day so you stay at the top?
- Are you casting your net wide?
- Are you presenting your best side, both with your profile and your pics?
- Did you take my confidence course before you started dating?
If you are doing these things for real then you are tossing out the losers, the couch potatoes and the users!
If you are committing to yourself and absorbing my information, then you are having success – you have no choice. The quality guys are there, but they need to see you. You need to rise above the others.
Choosing Mr. Right
One of the biggest issues we’re seeing over and over is women are picking and hanging onto the wrong guy!
STOP IT!
If you’re following Gregg’s advice, you are surrounding yourself with several men. This helps you avoid falling into a dangerous trap.
When you only date one guy at a time, you can immediately latch onto him, thinking he should return the favor.
The problem is, he shouldn’t, and why would he anyway?
You don’t know enough about him or vice versa.
You don’t know if he is emotionally available, dating and totally getting into someone else, or what’s going on in his life which may make him a wet kitten – all things which make him a wrong guy for you.
When a guy isn’t right for you, don’t take it personally, be glad you found out before too much time has passed.
Timing is everything.
This same thing applies to ex-boyfriends and husbands. If he won’t deal with his alcoholism, hasn’t supported himself for the last 12 years, and/or isn’t divorced yet, lose him!
Today is the Day for Taking Personal Responsibility
I say these things because Gregg and I care for you. We need to step up – all of us!
This includes me, in fact let’s make a promise to each other to try harder this year.
I’m setting new goals and we’re going to be there for more of you, more often, with the advice and the motivation you need, but you need to do your part. You need to absorb this information and apply it!
Deal? Awesome!
Hopefully, I am helping you today or maybe, like my friend, Debbie, I am making you angry – that’s your decision to make but my heart is in the right place.
