Why do I Attract Players? How to Choose Great Men Instead of Losers

Why do I attract players? This is an age old question with an easy answer. Learn how to find great men instead of losers in this great read!

What readers say…

Very good differentiation to losers

Having read most of Mr. Michaelsen’s books, I wasn’t sure I’d find much new in this one, but I did. Just what I was looking for and something I hadn’t found in his other books. The “snoozer”…very interesting, and many older gents who’ve been through the ropes will fit this description. It’s a very good differentiation to “losers”: once you’ve read this part, you won’t confuse these two. The advice and suggestions are excellent! They work, if for nothing more than to assist oneself AND a fellow traveler to become all one should be.
I appreciated the brevity, precision, and accuracy with which the author defined and characterized. After reading both “To Date A Man…” books, “Pennies in the Jar, 10 Secrets, and a few others, this was still a great read. It was like reading a college book summary. I Just love Gregg Michaelsen’s books…all of them….AND his blog’s and emails! Although, I do wish these were around when I was younger!!!

Awesome book for women

Gregg has written another fascinating book looking into the male mind, this one concentrating on the males we are best to avoid or run away from. Its a easy to read how to book, full of humor and great examples. Gregg’s gift is explaining how to understand men, and, to see them for who they are, not who we want them to be. That is where we as women make mistakes and this book is like a easy to read instruction manual to spot the bad guys pretending to be good ones. I loved this book!. Brilliant. Fun. And gave me lots of hope and inspiration.

Great read and great advice!

Gregg continues to provide insight into the male mind and encouragement for women everywhere – single or not. This book is chock full of great advice on the guys to avoid or dump (and how to do that) and the ones to seek out!! He also provides a good dose of reality for all women as far as taking responsibility for their own lives and happiness, and does it in a way that is engaging and challenging. Great book – inspires each woman to be her best and to find the kind of guy that wants to be his best for her.

Awesome read!

There are many books, but few books have real impact. This book is one of a million and had that impact on me. Words cannot describe the amount of tangible help and warm empathy I received. How the author put such things into words amazes me, but he did it. And, most important, he gave me many powerful ways to handle men. I’m most thankful. But, I was so sad when I finished the book, because I then realized all the time I have lost dating losers — but, no more!

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Inside this book, you’ll learn how to:

Define yourself and what you truly want in life
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Additionally, you’ll find steps you can take immediately to start your journey to dating an excellent, high-quality man.

Why do I Attract Players? The Answers are HERE!

I’m asked all of the time, “Gregg, why do I attract players?” The answer, which you’ll find inside this book, is not what you’re expecting.

He’s so easy to fall for – the player, or in this book, the “User”. He says all the right things and he listens (what guy listens???). This man is devilishly handsome and oh so smooth. How can you not fall for him?

I understand because I watch these guys operate from across the room and it makes me sick. I watch them search for their prey – innocent women who don’t believe they deserve a great guy are scooped up by them. Well no more!

Then, there’s the loser. This guy comes off as a great guy but he’s almost as bad as the user. The loser fell off the manhood train somewhere back and he’s still pretty immature, as men go. He might even still live at home, with his ‘apartment’ in the basement and bookshelves full of video games, controllers and empty snack bags. This guy might come across as someone who is dateable, but he’s not because he’s too caught up in his own world to worry about you.

This brings us to the snoozer, and this guy can be converted! Good news, right? He has the capacity to love and be a great guy, but he needs a little help to get there. If you’re willing to dedicate the time, this guy might be worth your while.

Of course, there’s Mr. Right – the man you’re after to begin with. By the time you get to him in the book, the differences between him and the other three are obvious. This is where you’ll learn exactly what it is this guy is looking for in a woman and how you can be that woman.

So many women write me, frustrated with finding losers, users and snoozers that I had to write this book! You’ll learn how to dump the loser and user, tame the snoozer and reel in Mr. Right, all between these pages!

Your great guy is out there waiting for you! Now, it’s time to understand who he is and what he wants!

Yes, I’m a guy, but that’s where your source of power comes from! I approach dating from the male perspective, helping you know what men are thinking!

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