If you’re reading this post today, I take my hat off to you. You have an interesting dilemma. You have two men who want to spend time with you – two men who may even love you. You’re faced with an intriguing problem – how to choose between two men.
Sexual tension does not have to fade in a relationship. I’ve been studying the connection between love and sex. I see couples who love each other but have no desire to have sex anymore and it confuses me.
Being a street guy, I know challenge and mystery play a huge part in sexual desire. Take it away and, sexual desire might suffer.
Whether you recognize it or not, a man and a woman go through stages of a relationship as it progresses. At some point, during each of these stages, there is a decision to ditch the relationship or move on.
Undoubtedly, you’ve experienced both.
The problem many couples face is trying to make the go or no-go decision too soon or without enough information to properly make that choice.
Today, let’s examine together these stages and how you know when it’s ...
In the beginning of a relationship, you’re not usually lacking for things to talk about. You don’t need a list of things to talk about with your boyfriend, but as time passes, it seems like you’ve learned all there is to know about one another. Periods of silence can be difficult.
Learning about one another builds intimacy between you. Especially early on, it makes you feel like you’re clicking – you feel chemistry – when you ask questions and find common ...
Guys pull away for a whole bunch of reasons but if you can understand the main reasons, you can eliminate many of them. I work with men so I see the reasons they pull away on a daily basis. I am a guy and I have done a few of them myself!
Now, in full disclosure, I am not always proud of my gender but it helps you to know how we think.
Sometimes, you need to know how to make a guy realize he’s losing you. Men can go rogue after the excitement fades. In other words, he starts taking you for granted. You give and he starts withdrawing. So, you give more, and he starts withdrawing more.
What’s the solution?
Put in as much effort into him as he does towards you!
This man needs to see signs that he might lose you so his chase DNA kicks back in and ...
Whether you’re obsessing about a great guy you saw at the bar last week or your ex, who you dated for three years, it doesn’t much matter. The end result is the same – you can’t stop thinking about him.
“Dam, I can’t stop thinking about him!”
As annoying as this can be, there are some psychological and physical reasons for this guy to be stuck in your head.
Wouldn’t it be great to have the ability to identify different kinds of guys and know which is best for you? It’s no secret that men are difficult to classify. Each man is a mixture of traits which create his unique personality. That’s challenging for any woman!
What’s more challenging is that men can change and move into and out of categories for brief periods of time.
The shy guy can find a little alcohol and become outgoing, until he sobers up. ...
Get Answers to these 10 Questions Before Moving in with Your Boyfriend
You’re here because you’ve started thinking that moving in with your boyfriend would be a great thing for your relationship. You’ve dated for a while now and you think he might be ‘the one’. Maybe he’s even sent you a few signals along the way to indicate he’s ready. Before we go there, I need to say one thing.
Why Do Guys Ignore Me? 5 Guys Chime in with Your Answer
Sally emailed me and asked this: “Gregg, lately I have noticed that the last two guys I dated, one I liked and one I really didn’t, seemed to ignore me. I’m not a chaser and I didn’t do anything creepy to scare them off. Why do guys ignore me? -any thoughts?”
I decided to ask my personal male friends about this one and get their perspective.