Choosing Between Two Guys in 6 Easy Steps

How to Choose Between Two Guys

If you’re reading this post today, I take my hat off to you. You have an interesting dilemma. You have two men who want to spend time with you – two men who may even love you. You’re faced with an intriguing problem – how to choose between two men.

Chances are, your relationships with these two guys are somewhat different. With one, there is probably a sense of comfort – perhaps normal. He’s always ...

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Lack of Sexual Tension in Your Relationship? Restore your Independence!

How to Bring Back Sexual Tension with Your Guy

Sexual tension does not have to fade in a relationship. I’ve been studying the connection between love and sex. I see couples who love each other but have no desire to have sex anymore and it confuses me.

Being a street guy, I know challenge and mystery play a huge part in sexual desire. Take it away and, sexual desire might suffer.


Intimacy and sexual desire work in opposition to one another. ...

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Stages of a Relationship by the Numbers

The 5 Relationship Stages

Whether you recognize it or not, a man and a woman go through stages of a relationship as it progresses. At some point, during each of these stages, there is a decision to ditch the relationship or move on.

Undoubtedly, you’ve experienced both.

The problem many couples face is trying to make the go or no-go decision too soon or without enough information to properly make that choice.

Today, let’s examine together these stages and how you know when it’s ...

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100 Things to Talk About With Your Boyfriend

In the beginning of a relationship, you’re not usually lacking for things to talk about. You don’t need a list of things to talk about with your boyfriend, but as time passes, it seems like you’ve learned all there is to know about one another. Periods of silence can be difficult.

Learning about one another builds intimacy between you. Especially early on, it makes you feel like you’re clicking – you feel chemistry – when you ask questions and find common ...

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Why Men Pull Away After Getting Close

Guys pull away for a whole bunch of reasons but if you can understand the main reasons, you can eliminate many of them. I work with men so I see the reasons they pull away on a daily basis. I am a guy and I have done a few of them myself!

Now, in full disclosure, I am not always proud of my gender but it helps you to know how we think.

Why Men Pull Away after Getting Close – Our ...

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A Million People Never Met Last Night

Will I ever find love? When will I meet my soulmate? And why haven’t I yet?

I get asked these questions often and it made me start to wonder why people are still single when they shouldn’t be.

On Saturday nights, I enjoy going out to watch the dating world unfold. On Sunday mornings, I often wonder, how many people didn’t meet last night?

Sometimes, my watching is at a bar while other times it’s at a wine-tasting, a fair or a charity ...

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How to Make a Guy Realize He’s Losing You

The Chase is On!

Sometimes, you need to know how to make a guy realize he’s losing you. Men can go rogue after the excitement fades. In other words, he starts taking you for granted. You give and he starts withdrawing. So, you give more, and he starts withdrawing more.

What’s the solution?

Put in as much effort into him as he does towards you!

This man needs to see signs that he might lose you so his chase DNA kicks back in and ...

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Why You Can’t Stop Thinking About Him

“I Can’t Stop Thinking About Him”

Whether you’re obsessing about a great guy you saw at the bar last week or your ex, who you dated for three years, it doesn’t much matter. The end result is the same – you can’t stop thinking about him.

“Dam, I can’t stop thinking about him!”

As annoying as this can be, there are some psychological and physical reasons for this guy to be stuck in your head.

As with much of what goes on in your ...

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How To Get Over A Guy You Never Really Dated

Getting Over a Guy You Liked But Never Dated Sucks!

Why is it so difficult to get over a guy you never actually had? At least breakups have reasons behind them. You didn’t get along. Your values weren’t the same or you grew apart.

But getting over a guy you liked but never really dated hurts. Why?

We take things personally and when people we like discard us, they drive a sword right through our self-esteem.

Isn’t that exactly how you ...

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Do Emotionally Unavailable Men Change?

Dating Men Who Can’t Love

You’ve asked the question that led you here for a reason – you suspect you’re dating or married to an emotionally unavailable man who can’t love.

You’ve twirled your hair into circles, chewed your nails and cried to your friends until they’ve stopped talking to you about him.

Still. The answer is elusive. Will your emotionally unavailable man change?

The truth is that unless he wants to change, the odds are against you.

Why tell you this so early on ...

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How to Ask a Guy Out | 5 Sure Fire Ways to Get a Yes!

Asking a Guy Out Can Be Fun with these 5 Tips!

For as long as I have been interested in women, I dreamed that just one would walk up and ask me out, “Gregg, you handsome devil, wanna go out with me?”

56 years later – I’m still waiting!

Ok maybe a few did but I sure as heck can’t remember when and, if a woman did, she probably was a hunch back with a tail.

My point being, is to ask a man ...

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100 Creative Ways to Say I Love You to Your Man

Creative Ways to Say I Love You Info-graphic!

You did it! You landed the perfect guy!


Now you need some creative ways to express your feelings without saying the three most overused words in the English dictionary.

I Love You.

Guys don’t even understand those three words. Oh, we will say them but most of the time we do because you’ll be angry if we don’t!

We show our love through actions. Men cut the lawn, stay home when you’re sick, fix things and ...

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2 Different Kinds of Guys and How to Date Them!

Wouldn’t it be great to have the ability to identify different kinds of guys and know which is best for you? It’s no secret that men are difficult to classify. Each man is a mixture of traits which create his unique personality. That’s challenging for any woman!

What’s more challenging is that men can change and move into and out of categories for brief periods of time.

The shy guy can find a little alcohol and become outgoing, until he sobers up. ...

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10 Questions To Answer Before Moving In With Your Boyfriend

Get Answers to these 10 Questions Before Moving in with Your Boyfriend

You’re here because you’ve started thinking that moving in with your boyfriend would be a great thing for your relationship. You’ve dated for a while now and you think he might be ‘the one’. Maybe he’s even sent you a few signals along the way to indicate he’s ready. Before we go there, I need to say one thing.

I don’t want to make your guy out to be a ...

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Why Do Guys Ignore Me? 5 Guys Chime in with Your Answer

Why Do Guys Ignore Me? 5 Guys Chime in with Your Answer

Sally emailed me and asked this: “Gregg, lately I have noticed that the last two guys I dated, one I liked and one I really didn’t, seemed to ignore me. I’m not a chaser and I didn’t do anything creepy to scare them off. Why do guys ignore me?  -any thoughts?”

I decided to ask my personal male friends about this one and get their perspective.

Why Do Guys Ignore Me? ...

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