Riding Solo – Embrace Being Single!

How to Enjoy Being Single While you Prepare for Mr. Right

My next book is for all the single women out there who are having a hard time enjoying being single. You might be single mom dating or a woman fresh out of college, if so, my new book Riding Solo can help you.

Inside you’ll find issues addressed that you have emailed me about. Issues like rumination and the lack of single quality men. I’m going to talk about what is ...

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Just How Many Dates Before Sex Should a Woman Have?

How Many Dates Before Sex?

First Date Sex? My thoughts are evolving on this subject as I listen to my readers and hear what is actually happening on Saturday nights.

My initial advice has always been to only have sex after a man has proven his worth through a series of tests that you put him through – without his knowledge of course.

Right now, I want to ‘tweak’ my advice to fit what I am hearing more and more – people want ...

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Should My Boyfriend Have Female Friends?

Can a Man and a Woman be Friends without an Undercurrent of Romance?

It’s the age-old question, should my boyfriend have female friends? If you’re old enough, perhaps you think Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan settled this in their blockbuster rom com of 1989, When Harry Met Sally.

So who got it right?

The real question at play is this: can a man and a woman be friends without an undercurrent of romance?

Crystal’s character says no – always an undercurrent of romance. Ryan’s ...

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Am I Pushing Him Away With My Insecurities? 8 Tips to Stop

8 Tips to Stop Being Insecure

Am I pushing him away with my insecurities? You met your ultimate Mr. Right. All of a sudden, he’s all you can think about. Day in and day out, your mind is on your new guy and how great he is. You spend way too much time wondering if he feels the same way about you.

This translates into multiple texts, emails and phone calls a day. You are fixated on him but what happens? He ...

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Dating an Older Man – The Good, the Bad and the Ugly

Are you ready to date an older man? Are you starting to realize men your age are immature? Maybe you’re tired of dates consisting of an all meat pizza and a movie?

I’ve been there so I can tell you exactly what to expect.

Generally speaking older men are more mature. That doesn’t mean there aren’t plenty of immature older men out there because there are! You must beware because dating an older guy who is in the middle of a mid-life ...

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Choosing Between Two Guys in 6 Easy Steps

How to Choose Between Two Guys

If you’re reading this post today, I take my hat off to you. You have an interesting dilemma. You have two men who want to spend time with you – two men who may even love you. You’re faced with an intriguing problem – how to choose between two men.

Chances are, your relationships with these two guys is somewhat different. With one, there is probably a sense of comfort – perhaps normal. He’s always ...

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Lack of Sexual Tension in Your Relationship? Restore your Independence!

How to Bring Back Sexual Tension with Your Guy

Sexual tension does not have to fade in a relationship. I’ve been studying the connection between love and sex. I see couples who love each other but have no desire to have sex anymore and it confuses me.

Being a street guy, I know challenge and mystery play a huge part in sexual desire. Take it away and, sexual desire might suffer.


Intimacy and sexual desire work in opposition to one another. ...

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Stages of a Relationship by the Numbers

The 5 Relationship Stages

Whether you recognize it or not, a man and a woman go through stages of a relationship as it progresses. At some point, during each of these stages, there is a decision to ditch the relationship or move on.

Undoubtedly, you’ve experienced both.

The problem many couples face is trying to make the go or no-go decision too soon or without enough information to properly make that choice.

Today, let’s examine together these stages and how you know when it’s ...

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100 Things to Talk About With Your Boyfriend

In the beginning of a relationship, you’re not usually lacking for things to talk about. You don’t need a list of things to talk about with your boyfriend, but as time passes, it seems like you’ve learned all there is to know about one another. Periods of silence can be difficult.

Learning about one another builds intimacy between you. Especially early on, it makes you feel like you’re clicking – you feel chemistry – when you ask questions and find common ...

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Why Men Pull Away After Getting Close

Guys pull away for a whole bunch of reasons but if you can understand the main reasons, you can eliminate many of them. I work with men so I see the reasons they pull away on a daily basis. I am a guy and I have done a few of them myself!

Now, in full disclosure, I am not always proud of my gender but it helps you to know how we think.

Why Men Pull Away after Getting Close – Our ...

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A Million People Never Met Last Night

Will I ever find love? When will I meet my soulmate? And why haven’t I yet?

I get asked these questions often and it made me start to wonder why people are still single when they shouldn’t be.

On Saturday nights, I enjoy going out to watch the dating world unfold. On Sunday mornings, I often wonder, how many people didn’t meet last night?

Sometimes, my watching is at a bar while other times it’s at a wine-tasting, a fair or a charity ...

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How to Make a Guy Realize He’s Losing You

The Chase is On!

Sometimes, you need to know how to make a guy realize he’s losing you. Men can go rogue after the excitement fades. In other words, he starts taking you for granted. You give and he starts withdrawing. So, you give more, and he starts withdrawing more.

What’s the solution?

Put in as much effort into him as he does towards you!

This man needs to see signs that he might lose you so his chase DNA kicks back in and ...

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3 Powerful Texts to Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back

Texts to Get Your Ex Back

Before I give you 3 powerful texts to get your ex-boyfriend back, let’s set the stage.

⇐ Click and Download your FREE Get Your Ex Back Info-graphic!

In my best-seller, How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, you learn how to send a powerful letter to your ex, wait a few days and then send ...

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Why You Can’t Stop Thinking About Him

“I Can’t Stop Thinking About Him”

Whether you’re obsessing about a great guy you saw at the bar last week or your ex, who you dated for three years, it doesn’t much matter. The end result is the same – you can’t stop thinking about him.

“Dam, I can’t stop thinking about him!”

As annoying as this can be, there are some psychological and physical reasons for this guy to be stuck in your head.

As with much of what goes on in your ...

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How To Get Over A Guy You Never Really Dated

Getting Over a Guy You Liked But Never Dated Sucks!

Why is it so difficult to get over a guy you never actually had? At least breakups have reasons behind them. You didn’t get along. Your values weren’t the same or you grew apart.

But getting over a guy you liked but never really dated hurts. Why?

We take things personally and when people we like discard us, they drive a sword right through our self-esteem.

Isn’t that exactly how you ...

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Do Emotionally Unavailable Men Change?

Dating Men Who Can’t Love

You’ve asked the question that led you here for a reason – you suspect you’re dating or married to an emotionally unavailable man who can’t love.

You’ve twirled your hair into circles, chewed your nails and cried to your friends until they’ve stopped talking to you about him.

Still. The answer is elusive. Will your emotionally unavailable man change?

The truth is that unless he wants to change, the odds are against you.

Why tell you this so early on ...

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