Maybe Your Boyfriend is a Romantic and You Just Don’t Realize It!
I have received many emails from women who were headed for divorce, based solely on their husband (or boyfriend) not being romantic enough.
I grew up in a family who didn’t show love. I have three older sisters and I am the only son. I never saw my mom and dad kiss, and we never said, “I love you” before bed or when we said goodbye. I learned from my ... Continue Reading →
Are you tired of putting in the work and getting nothing in return? Is your motivation to keep the relationship going falling off? Has the sex dwindled? These are some of the signs that you are suffering from relationship burnout.
Relationship burnout happens when one or both of you start thinking about parting ways. Sometimes it’s not even the relationship that’s at fault – it’s outside forces like a mixed family or long work hours that strain ... Continue Reading →
6 Steps to Make Your Passion Your Paycheck!
We all know happiness comes from within, right? So, what makes you happy? I bet you have, or dream of a hobby or passion that makes you intensely happy – Horseback riding or traveling let’s say.
Then make your passion your paycheck!
How do I know this to be the truth? Because I live it!
FYI: When someone spouts facts that you question, do yourself a favor and dig into their life and see if they ... Continue Reading →
I hear it all the time, ”Gregg, he says he fell out of love with me – can you fall out of love?”
When I hear this question, I realize that this couple has misunderstood a fundamental aspect of their relationship – love.
Many people operate on the idea that you feel love for someone, and this can be true, but it’s not what makes a relationship successful.
What makes a relationship successful is understanding one important thing about the word love. It’s ... Continue Reading →
5 Things You Need to Know About Dating a Quiet Guy
Quiet guys can be great men to date, if you understand just how they tick. I’ve worked with a lot of men, and although every guy is different, I have found that quiet guys have certain attributes.
Follow my tips below and thrive with your quiet, shy guy.
They listen…a lot
Dating a quiet guy can be the perfect remedy for your bad day, incident with your cat, or exciting train ride you ... Continue Reading →
How Do I Know If I Like Him or the Idea of Him?
Have you ever asked yourself, “Why the f**k am I with this man?”
There comes a time in every woman’s life when she must evaluate if the man she is with is the right man for her.
What are the reasons I’m dating him? Does he complete me?
Sometimes we like the idea of being in love over loving the right guy. The thought of children running around on the ... Continue Reading →
The Do’s and Don’ts of Apologizing to Your Boyfriend
You know I’m not a big fan of apologies unless you purposely ran over your boyfriend’s dog – which I know you would never do. I prefer acknowledging the mistake, fixing it and moving forward.
But, there are times when you mess up big-time. Maybe you had too much to drink and you flirted with the waiter, or you called out your mother-in-law’s bitchy behavior.
I get it. So what are some tactics to ... Continue Reading →
What Does a Man Want for Valentines Day?
Ah, the stress men face when Valentine’s Day nears. For me, and many men, it’s as tough or tougher than Christmas because it needs to be romantic. It needs to be right or we are screwed!
But what about men? What do we want? I mean it’s our day too right?
Well, I got on it and I surveyed my vast network of guys and here are the surprising results.
Make it about us too
Surprised? I ... Continue Reading →
Learn How to Date Your Husband All Over Again
When you first meet a new guy, you’re excited for every date. Each time you get together, it’s special for both of you. For you, you’re taking the temperature of the relationship. For him, he’s enjoying the mystery he considers to be you.
However, after you’ve settled in, maybe even moved in together or gotten married, you stop dating each other.
This is a mistake.
Falling into a routine where you exist among one another ... Continue Reading →
Stop Liking Someone You Aren’t Dating!
Have you ever jumped into a hot tub only to have the water spill over the edge? This is called displacement. That water spilling over the edge will never make it back into the hot tub…or it shouldn’t unless you allow it to return.
We’ve all been there. Crushing on some guy or gal that we shouldn’t be. He is married, a player or simply a lousy fit. He only calls you when he wants to ... Continue Reading →
Selling Yourself Short in Life is the Result of a Toxic Past
Have you ever had a friend tell you that you are selling yourself short when it comes to men and dating?
I have said to someone from time to time and it hasn’t gone over well at all, unfortunately.
It’s no wonder relationships fail at the high rate they do – people sell themselves short.
It’s all about self-worth. If you don’t think highly of yourself, there is a greater chance you ... Continue Reading →
Online Dating Will Suck No More
Online dating sucks for a variety of reasons. Fake pics, embellished profiles and guys living in the basement smoking pot with no career hopes are a few reasons.
Then, you get him out only to find out he is a total dirt bag. He’s actually ‘separated’ which means he is in an argument with his wife about his porn addiction and anger issues. Of course, you don’t find this part out until much later.
Basically, men lie ... Continue Reading →
Why Is He Texting Me If He’s Not Interested?
Doesn’t this aggravate the crap out of you? You meet a guy. You like him and you think he might be worth a shot and he likes you too, right?
Well, maybe not.
You don’t know because he blows hot and cold. He keeps you hanging but doesn’t pull the trigger. He keeps texting you but doesn’t ask you out.
Why does he keep contacting me?
You’re on deck
Of course, right? You are his #2. ... Continue Reading →
Hell, yes! You should tell him how you feel!
I get the “Should I Tell Him How I Feel?” question all the time from women who are scared to share their feelings with a man they like.
“What about the game Gregg?”
“What about the challenge and keeping the mystery you always talk about?”
“Shouldn’t he make the first move?”
I get it. And, yes, I have said those things – so let’s clear things up now.
It’s how you act after you make ... Continue Reading →
105 Wonderful Date Night Ideas for Married Couples to Share!
I don’t know about where you live, but in New England, fall is a beautiful time of year and it can also be a very romantic time as fireplaces begin to blaze and the beautiful colors of autumn dance across the landscape.
It’s a great time to get back into the date night habit or start one if you haven’t put one in place. I’ve compiled this list of date night ideas ... Continue Reading →
Learn How to Unlock His Hero Instinct
What the heck is hero instinct? Let me explain.
Many men long to be a hero in everyday life – we live vicariously through the super heroes of our past. The reality is that we are pretty safe these days so saving the world probably isn’t going to happen. But we would still like to be a real-life hero with the woman we love or might soon meet.
Have you noticed that almost all men have ... Continue Reading →
Whether it’s a personal or couples journal, starting a journal is like starting a new workout – you need great journaling techniques! Otherwise, it’s great at first but fizzles out fast and before you know it, the excitement and consistency wane into more of a meh kind of feeling.
Well, there are too many benefits to both journaling and exercise to give up so quickly, so today I have some journaling techniques to keep you on track.
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Can a Bucket List Journal Change Your Life?
The movie The Bucket List sort of brought forth this idea of making a list of things you want to experience before you die or kick the bucket. In the movie, Morgan Freeman and Jack Nicholson play hospital roomies, both terminal. Nicholson’s very wealthy character decides he needs a bucket list and, with time, the much poorer (financially) Freeman secretly creates his own list.
The two break out of hospital and begin their adventure ... Continue Reading →
Yes, Dating a Divorced Man can Work – Here’s How!
You know the dangers of dating a divorced man from my last article, now let’s give you some tips on dating a divorced guy and making it last.
Some men need a second round to get it right
That means that timing is everything for you. Many get married too young and believe they’ve met their soulmate when, in fact, they were too young and immature to know what they wanted.
Age and ... Continue Reading →
Dating a Recently Divorced Man Comes with Complications
You finally met a great guy after months of meeting frogs. This man showed up on time, smelled oh so good and holds a decent job. Congratulations! There is one small problem you didn’t know until now – you’re dating a recently divorced man.
You think, “No big deal, he’s over her, he even says so.” But a few dates pile up, and you start to realize that her name gets mentioned more often ... Continue Reading →