Why Do Men Stare at Women?
So you’re on the train and a cute guy keeps staring at you. Why do men stare at women? What is he thinking?
1) He wants to steal your money, phone and your jewelry
2) He likes you
Let’s go with option #2 – it’s more fun!
I wish I could say that when you catch a guy staring at you, he is analyzing the odds of compatibility by using an algorithm more complex than what Google ... Continue Reading →
Some Women may Benefit from an NSA Relationship – Here’s Why
NSA relationship means ‘no strings attached’ in case you didn’t know.
We all have heard the reasons that NSA relationship don’t work, but I want to throw a stick in the spokes and see if I can get you to consider another side.
A side that might help you find true love later.
You see, if you are confident enough going into an NSA relationship, you can come out with new skills that ... Continue Reading →
How to Not be a Clingy Girlfriend
Jessica contacted me and asked if she was becoming that clingy girlfriend after three months of dating.
She said her Zeus was pulling away and not responding to her texts like he used to. Jess said her friends are wondering why she is acting so weird around this guy – like she lost all sense of herself.
She knew she was a hot mess but didn’t know what to do about it.
Jessica had become a clingy ... Continue Reading →
I Hate Being Single! 15 Ways Why Being Single Rocks
Guess what? Your mirror called and is telling you to get a boyfriend.
Right? Your mirror, your mom, your friends and even your cat thinks you are a broken woman with little to offer. Nonsense!
What if I were to tell you that I get on average 35 emails per day from women that are supposedly ‘living the dream’ in a relationship.
These are your counterparts describing to me the cheating, the lying, ... Continue Reading →
Men. They Always Come Back. Why?
You and your boyfriend breakup, and he doesn’t care about you until months later, after you stopped caring about him. Curious isn’t it? Men come back like a flock of sheep to grass. There are several reasons for this and I’ve got seven of them for you today!
First, let’s look at why he probably left, then follow up with the seven reasons why men come back months later.
Why He Left: The Challenge Evaporates
Nothing worth ... Continue Reading →
How to Enjoy Being Single While you Prepare for Mr. Right
My next book is for all the single women out there who are having a hard time enjoying being single. You might be single mom dating or a woman fresh out of college, if so, my new book Riding Solo can help you.
Inside you’ll find issues addressed that you have emailed me about. Issues like rumination and the lack of single quality men. I’m going to talk about what ... Continue Reading →
How Many Dates Before Sex?
First Date Sex? My thoughts are evolving on this subject as I listen to my readers and hear what is actually happening on Saturday nights.
My initial advice has always been to only have sex after a man has proven his worth through a series of tests that you put him through – without his knowledge of course.
Right now, I want to ‘tweak’ my advice to fit what I am hearing more and more – people want ... Continue Reading →
Can a Man and a Woman be Friends without an Undercurrent of Romance?
It’s the age-old question, should my boyfriend have female friends? If you’re old enough, perhaps you think Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan settled this in their blockbuster rom com of 1989, When Harry Met Sally.
So who got it right?
The real question at play is this: can a man and a woman be friends without an undercurrent of romance?
Crystal’s character says no – always an undercurrent of romance. Ryan’s ... Continue Reading →
8 Tips to Stop Being Insecure
Am I pushing him away with my insecurities? You met your ultimate Mr. Right. All of a sudden, he’s all you can think about. Day in and day out, your mind is on your new guy and how great he is. You spend way too much time wondering if he feels the same way about you.
This translates into multiple texts, emails and phone calls a day. You are fixated on him but what happens? He ... Continue Reading →
The Pros and Cons of Dating an Older Man
Are you ready to date an older man? Are you starting to realize men your age are immature? Maybe you’re tired of dates consisting of an all meat pizza and a movie?
I’ve been there so I can tell you exactly what to expect.
Generally speaking older men are more mature. That doesn’t mean there aren’t plenty of immature older men out there because there are! You must beware because dating an older ... Continue Reading →
How to Choose Between Two Guys
If you’re reading this post today, I take my hat off to you. You have an interesting dilemma. You have two men who want to spend time with you – two men who may even love you. You’re faced with an intriguing problem – how to choose between two men.
Chances are, your relationships with these two guys is somewhat different. With one, there is probably a sense of comfort – perhaps normal. He’s always ... Continue Reading →
How to Bring Back Sexual Tension with Your Guy
Sexual tension does not have to fade in a relationship. I’ve been studying the connection between love and sex. I see couples who love each other but have no desire to have sex anymore and it confuses me.
After years in the relationship business, I know challenge and mystery play a huge part in sexual desire. Take it away and, sexual desire might suffer.
Intimacy and sexual desire work in opposition to ... Continue Reading →
The 5 Relationship Stages
Whether you recognize it or not, a man and a woman go through stages of a relationship as it progresses. At some point, during each of these stages, there is a decision to ditch the relationship or move on.
Undoubtedly, you’ve experienced both.
The problem many couples face is trying to make the go or no-go decision too soon or without enough information to properly make that choice.
Today, let’s examine together these stages and how you know when it’s ... Continue Reading →
Lost for Words? Need some Questions to Ask your Boyfriend?
In the beginning of a relationship, you’re not usually lacking for things to talk about. You don’t need a list of things to talk about with your boyfriend, but as time passes, it seems like you’ve learned all there is to know about one another. Periods of silence can be difficult.
Learning about one another builds intimacy between you. Especially early on, it makes you feel like you’re clicking – you feel ... Continue Reading →
Forget what You Have Been Told. Here is Why Men Get Spooked
Guys pull away for a whole bunch of reasons but if you can understand the main reasons, you can eliminate many of them. I work with men so I see the reasons they pull away on a daily basis. I am a guy and I have done a few of them myself!
Now, in full disclosure, I am not always proud of my gender but it helps you to know ... Continue Reading →