Today, I want to help you take control of your relationship. This is part 1 of a 13-part series about understanding men and learning how to get what you want from a relationship by utilizing this information.

In a nice way, of course, and without him ever knowing what hit him! ?

I’ve been studying my gender since birth and my conclusions are not pretty!

Women email me every day, asking me questions about how to gain control over a man, so I’ve been at the bars on Saturday nights and in the trenches getting down and dirty to bring you answers.

Everything that guides a man and makes him act the way he acts is imprinted on him early in life. Other traits are built into his DNA. If a woman can learn and accept these imprints, then she can use them to take control of her relationship.

Take Control of Your Relationship With Knowledge

These are the 12 main ingredients:

• Men need to win, winning is everything!
• Competition is huge
• Why do guys fear rejection
• Why men hide their feelings
• Money and the importance to men
• Why is social status so important to men?
• Men love challenge
• Men need to feel appreciated
• We were taught to sleep with as many women as we can (sorry, but true)
• Men need to feel that they can provide
• Guys take longer to fall in love
• Men can get bored easy when the challenge and mystery disappear

Based on these 12 ingredients, I have found the formula for women to get what they desire from men simply by communicating in the language that they understand based on these 12 ingredients.

Take Control Of Your Relationship By Taking Your Power Back From A Man

Only you will know what hit him!

In order to take control of your relationship, you need to gain and maintain the power position. Men can be complacent in a relationship. They get lazy. By taking back your power, you can snap him out of his bad behavior. One way to do this is by using what I call Man Mode. By using Man Mode, you can talk to a man in a way which makes sense to him. This is a concept I teach in my #1 best seller, To Date a Man, You Must Understand a Man which has sold tens of thousands of copies.

Inside my second book written to help women understand men, 10 Secrets You Need to Know About Men: Dating Coach Tells All  I perfected Man Mode. 10 Secrets is filled with examples of everyday situations and then answered and solved by using this formula!

No more philosophical crap from so-called experts that make you feel good for a minute but never work. The formula for getting what you want from any guy looks like this:

Assess the situation + Determine which ingredient fits from above + Adjust your language or action based on my instructions = Get the results that you desire from men!

Sounds simple right? It is and it works like magic!! Gone are the days of begging for the ring, wondering where you stand in the relationship or watching your guy ogle at other women!

Learn How To Gain Control Over A Man With These Tools

Say hello to solving just about any problem with a quality guy using my formula above! He won’t even know what you’re doing – he just knows he loves you and he isn’t going anywhere!

Men and women do almost everything differently, and sometimes for different motivations.

Men view finances, love, dating, dealing with difficult situations, and communication differently than women.

Inside this book, you’ll discover how to improve your relationships by understanding these differences and learning how to overcome them and use them to your advantage.

This isn’t about playing games. It’s about understanding what he’s thinking and how he’ll best understand you.