When you both carry the same baggage
Codependence never makes for a good relationship. When two people are both carrying similar baggage, the relationship becomes very destructive very fast. Two alcoholics will never work to better themselves. Two angry people will beat the crap out of each other, yell, scream and generally be a nuissance to each other. Someone who suffered abuse might cling onto someone who is abusive because it is familiar. Regardless of the codependence, the relationship is doomed. Fortunately for you, I have a solution or two for you!
To Date a Man, You Must Understand Yourself
is a great book for helping you learn more about who you are and how to become a Woman of Worth (WOW)! This book will give you the insight to understand the difference between Keepers and Rest Stops in the male mind. You want to be a Keeper!
Comfortable in Your Own Shoes
will help you build upon the confidence you have and escalate yourself into a high-value woman! This is the only book out there written for women to help them build confidence! This book will help you change the voice in your head, develop a plan, and move your life in the right direction!